See i you can catch yourself complaining in either speech or thought, about a situation you find yourself in ,, what other people do or say, your surroundings, your life situation, even the weather. To complain is always nonacceptance of what is. When you complain, you make yourself into a victim. When you speak out, you are in your power. So change the situation by taking action or by speaking out if necessary or possible; leave the situation or accept it.
Some peole would always rather be somewhere else. There "here" is never good enough. If you find your here and now intolerable and it makes you unhappy, you have three options: Remove yourself form the situation, Change it, or Accept it totally. If you want to take responsibility for your life, you must choose one of those tree potions, and you must choose now. Then accept the consequences, No excuses. No negativity.
Any action is often better then no action, especially if you have been stuck in an unhappy situation for a long time. If it is a mistake, at least you learn something, in which case it's no longer a mistake. If you remain stuck, you learn nothing.
Is fear preventing you from taking action? Acknowledge the fear, Don;t let the fear rise up into your mind. The false, unhappy self that loves feeling miserable resentful, or sorry for itself can then no longer survive, This is called surrender. Surrender is not weakness. There is great strength in it. Only a surrendered person has spiritual power. Through surrender you will be free internally of the situation. You are free.
Get up and do it now. Enjoy it!
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